People seem to be passionate with positions. New postures can lead to better sex. Positions are the wonderful ways to add spark in a relationship. It takes a whole lot more than good acrobatics to make a great lover.
It is perhaps a shame that we know so little about how to make each other happy in that most fabulous experience, sex. With a few small additions to your sexual glossary you can break out of boredom and lead happier and more satisfying sex lives. Romance, good communication, physical energy, atmosphere and a person you feel comfortable with are together are also much important for great lovemaking.
Perhaps the best known position in the Western world, The Missionary has often been thought of as conservative and substandard. Nothing could be farther from the truth! In this very tender and intimate position the man is on top lying down and facing his partner. A unique level of closeness between the two partners which is heightened by the ability to kiss, caress and hold each other close during coitus and full body contact felt are its features. The position of the female is the only drawback. Restriction on her pelvic movements means that she plays a more passive role. This limited freedom is unpleasant to many women. Yet, the missionary position allows for easy entry, deep penetration and uncompromised intimacy.
But, this position is the most commonly used position in the world and has plenty of advantages for both men and women. In this position, a man can dominate the woman and at the same time, the woman may like to be taken by the man. Many variations can be done to it. It is performed by the man lying on top of the woman with her legs to her side and knees slightly bent fully exposing herself to him.
Another technique known as the peace sign technique is similar to the missionary position except her legs are close together and his legs are spread out. This allows for excellent clitoral stimulation and feels tighter to the man.
Some of the best sex positions with Man on Top are discussed below.
Standing Sex Position
This position is aggressive and can add real excitement to your sex life. It is done by the man and woman facing each other arms wrapped around each other, usually her arms around his neck for support and her legs wrapped around his waist. While in this position she can then move about slowly or he can lead the movement.
A variation can be done to this position. But, against the wall, this variation calls for a strong man. He lifts her up and forces her against a wall, again with her arms around his neck and her legs around his waist. Another variation to this is his back against the wall while her feet are planted firmly on the wall and she's able to move in/out by pushing her weight by extending her legs.
To better your sexual experience, try doing this in water. This will help lighten the load and help extend the pleasure for the both of you.
The Cradle
It is an excellent position to try for something new. This is done by the man holding the woman as if "cradling" her; one arm under her backside, the other arm holding her legs beneath the knees. Because of this holding position, it requires strength on man's part or a petite woman. He enters her from beneath between the thighs and has total control.
Riding High Best Sex Position
The riding high position involves the man riding high on his partners pelvis during intercourse and applying direct and continuous pressure on her clitoris. It is originally called the coital alignment technique. It is extremely effective for women who have trouble reaching orgasms.
Start this position using the basic missionary position - after penis is inserted demand raises his pelvis up over hers so the base of his penis is in direct contact with her clitoris. He then lowers his chest onto her torso, taken the weight off his hands, as she wraps her legs around his thighs and places her ankles on his calves. He then moves slowly up-and-down (not in and out) building up to climax.
Sex, if always done the same way, can get boring. Variations are much more important. If you normally have sex on the bottom, try standing up. If you like to have sex in bed, try it once in the hot tub. Sometimes, catch your partner by surprise. The most boring thing in the world is if you can predict what your partner will do. If you always begin being sexually intimate by kissing first, play with her/his toes first. If you normally start touching the genital area, start by giving a backrub, which will turn into a front rub. Change is the most critical part here. Anything different is an improvement.
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